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I Was Meant to Have This Child
(A Project REACH
feature report)
Kelechi Ekpechan had
saved money for an abortion. She was 20 years old, pregnant
and on her own financially. Her parents were back home in
Nigeria with financial problems of their own. But in way that
Kelechi would only appreciate later, all these problems turned
out to be the seeds of good things to come.
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‘I had to send money
home to Nigeria. I couldn’t get the abortion then,’ she
recalled recently.
After reaching out for
help from Pregnancy Care Center in Westchester, Kelechi
delivered her baby more than three years ago and turned her
life around. Little Jhad ‘is my reason for living,’
Kelechi said. ‘I would not give him up for all the world.’
She was a good
daughter to send money home when her parents were in need, and
she has been rewarded for her generosity with a beautiful
child, said Angela McNaughton, who helped Kelechi through her
crisis. ‘She has become a wonderful mother now herself,’
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McNaughton runs a
counseling center in New Rochelle called Pregnancy Care
Center. She also is director of the Elinor Martin Residence, a
home for single mothers and their children located on the
campus of St. Agnes Hospital in White Plains. When Kelechi was
seven months pregnant and no longer welcome by the people she
was living with, social workers at New Rochelle hospital
called Pregnancy Care Center. McNaughton counseled the young
woman, and then placed her in the Elinor Martin Residence
after she delivered the baby. The usual stay for most new
mothers at the pro-life residence is less than one year.
Realizing that Kelechi need extra help and support, McNaughton
allowed her to stay there with her baby 18 months.
“I needed love at
the time, a lot of love,” Kelechi said. “I was scared to
make that move to the real world.”
The women at the
residence are required to attend school or job training
classes during the day, while trained staffers care for the
children at the residence. Kelechi attended Marie Smith Urban
Street Academy, where she took a computer literacy course and
gained advanced business skills. The training gave her a new
outlook on life and hope for the future. “For the first time
I was able to make eye contact with a person I was speaking
to,’ she said.
She now lives in her
own apartment in Manhattan and works as receptionist in a
doctor’s office. She reported with beaming eyes that she is
engaged to be married next year. One day she hopes to return
to Nigeria with her son, she added.
'Kelechi has come a
long way,’ McNaughton said. ‘It has been a great joy to
watch her grow and mature. And her child is just adorable.
They are a perfect example of the good that can come out of
difficulties if there are people who will help a woman give
life to her child.”
Of her time at the
pro-life residence, Kelechi said, ‘They were very nice, warm
and friendly. I was very happy that they came into my path. I
know that I was meant to have this child, and they were there
when I really needed help.’
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